I wish there was a sign before you entered someones life that read "Do not enter, I am a mess" or "I only want you for the sex" life would be so much easier, a lot of guys would spare girls hearts... Let it be known that there is only tears and pain here, there is NO love here.
You begin hating the guy to hide that you still care, that you still love him because he has not made any move on you, he uses you as a sex object because you allow him to, you become too afraid to ask him the "where do we stand" question. Once you ask a guy that question there is no turning back, it is a good thing if he wants you on so many more levels then just someone who can offer him sex, but it is a bad thing if he does not see you as girlfriend material, that is where the tension comes in.
How long do you wait for a man??? ... As a woman you are quick to dish out advice when a guy is not making any move on your friends but when you are in their shoes, it becomes difficult to take your own advice.
You cannot always meet him in his room, why does he want you to always meet up in his room, why can't you "just chill" outside, why can't he visit you on your campus to hangout at the cafeteria or the field? well guess what he does not want you as a girlfriend, you're just there when he is bored and needs someone to make his stick feel alive again.
ladies waste their time waiting for a guy that is not interested in them forgetting that there is a million other guys that would do anything to make her feel happy, but she lets the good guy that is waiting for her, go past all because she is hoping for that one guy to notice that she is "girlfriend material.
You stay around playing second best because you dont want to lose him.
