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Saturday, 1 September 2012

Emotionally Drained



When love consumes hundreds of ounces of your capability to trust and give to the person that hurt you most but you try and move past it because that is how much you love them.

When a girl gets into a relationship, she invest all of her feelings and emotions into this one guy and it open her up to a possibility of getting hurt in the future but she gives herself completely to this one guy, something that men will never fully comprehend and even if they do understand they will never get t the point where they feel exactly the same way we feel.

Getting into a relationship is the best feeling ever knowing that someone loves you and you can call this person "my boyfriend/girlfriend" but nobody wants to get into a relationship where the ex is still lingering on, I hate it when a person gets into a relationship and does not leave their baggage behind, are boys that blind to realize that "baggage" meaning ex can put their relationship at risk with the girl that they love and are in a relationship with. No girl wants to feel like they are competing for their man it just defeats the whole purpose of being with that guy. Talking it out with your man is a good step and in that moment in that time he needs to   see who is important to him, he can not have options its either you or nothing, and if he says he does not care about his ex then why is he allowing her to still have a link to communicate with him, it is not on.

"Too much of anything can make you sink, even the good can be curse" So it just goes to show that something good can also be bad for you, but I believe that if you love someone, no matter the situation you will go through storms and sunshine with him, all in the name of LOVE but being there with him through all the bullshit does not give him the right to be an asshole or take advantage of your love and forgiveness.

When we move onto a new relationship after getting out of the one that has hurt us, we become emotionally drained and we fail to see the good guys because we believe that "every boy is the same" instead of giving him a chance to prove himself. All that repulsive-like attitude she’s embracing, she will just drive him away, however she is not completely at fault, for he will fail to see what drove her to be like that; hopefully he will get to see through her and help her refill her emotions vividly all over again.

Sometimes you need to give your heart a break and ALLOW someone to love you! forget about everyone and everything around you that is trying to keep and break you guys apart, look out for number one. DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY.


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